Betty loved music. And she loved her music live. Betty, Gloria, Wilma, Wanda and many more of us would always get together @ a performance near by. At one point for 2 years every weekend. Betty had her favorite song “One”. A tune off of our 3rd CD. She would always say (not ask) “you’re gonna play my song, Right?!” After the show she would always tell me “Thank you for playing my song”. We never mentioned the title, it was clearly Ms. Betty’s Song.
Years went by and I fell into a health crisis. Not having the resources to have a thorough examination I just did my best and what ever it took to work through it. After all the years together in Tunica I always referred to Betty as “my second mama” she believed it to be true also. As It became evident that I was slowly loosing my voice Betty was the first person who inquired. Like a mama, she read me like a book. “Ricky, what’s wrong with you honey” She knew early on that I had become physically & emotionally on a downward spiral. Betty would always say with those loving and gripping eyes “Ricky I’m praying for you. Now you get over this!” I know she implored many to pray for me when I did buckle under with heart disease. 2017-‘18 I spent a great deal of time in the hospital. And by the Grace of God and the power of prayer my life on earth was spared.
This past month of November 2020 I was blessed to have the first opportunity to speak with Betty. We talked about every detail we needed to catch up on. We continued to talk about how she and her family and friends stayed in prayer for my recovery. Only God knows how close I came to exiting this world without assembling my earthly affairs. We giggled in triumph as Ms. Betty was quoted saying to me “Ricky you had me worried. But I knew you would pull through, I never stopped praying for you”. This is like a testimony. Ms. Betty’s firm belief in God and her faithful driven prayers had actually been answered. Strengthening her trust in the Father and the Son & the Holy Spirit even greater.
Ms Betty express to me how Jesse (grandson) had become the light of her day and night.
And no matter what, she wasn’t going to miss any chance to be with Jesse & her family and friends who were family. I know in my heart Ms Betty is resting well on the golden steps leading to the throne of God. Making sure we all remain in prayer for each other. Ms.Betty will forever be in my heart. Family and friends as well.
We’ll see you again Ms.Betty. On Gods celestial shores. ❤️