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David K. Essary

Birth Date: February 14, 1950
Death Date: April 12, 2019

David K. Essary died peacefully on April 12, 2019 at the age of 69. David was born in Corinth, MS, on Valentine’s Day, 1950 to Imogene Lancaster Russell and Durell Essary, but lived most of his life in Memphis, TN. David’s life was first and foremost devoted to God and his family. In addition to his desire to serve others, David had a multitude of passions, from delving into the intricate history of Memphis music, listening to the Delta blues and classic rock ‘n’ soul music, and priding himself on having a mental library of what he called “useless knowledge,” which he was always ready to share with others. David also had a deep passion for automobiles, motorcycles, and sports of almost any type, with particular interest in helping support his children and grandchildren in their sports activities. Later in life, he developed a passion for painting, often gifting family members with his artwork.

David graduated from Oakhaven High School in 1968 and attended Memphis State University. After a stint in the Air Force, during the Vietnam War, David quickly found success in the grocery industry, where he spent the majority of his career. David spent 24 years with Jitney Jungle, a grocery chain with corporate offices in Jackson, MS, where he rose from a meat manager to the company COO. At Jitney, David was honored and respected for his caring, people-first style of business. After helping lead the company to its sale in 1996, David left Jitney in 1998, and co-founded David Essary and Associates, LLC. At D.E. & Associates, David had the opportunity to work with his long-time friends and associates at Sanderson Farms, where he was passionate about helping a Mississippi-based company to grow on a national scale.

After a partial retirement in 2015, David spent his time focusing on family. In his last few years, David and his wife, Sherry, were inseparable, spending nearly every minute of every day together; whether that be attending Church at Crossroads United Methodist or Grace Evangelical

Church, spending time with children, grandchildren, parents, brother and sister-in-law, his two nieces, long-time friends, or simply enjoying slow days together.

David is survived by his wife, Sherry, his two sons Keith (Shannon) and Kevin (Stacie), and four grandchildren, Austin (24), Alexandria (14), Josie (13), and Luke (10), his mother-in-law Josephine Travis, sister and brother-in-law Donna and Steven Snow, and nieces Abigail and Isabella Snow. David is also survived by his aunt, Syble Wilburn (Frank), and cousins Pat and Perry Wilburn, Jim Tankersley, and Tambra Champagne.

David’s life positively influenced countless people. His life’s celebration will begin on Wednesday, April 17, 2019, with Visitation and receiving of friends at 10 a.m. and the funeral service celebrating David’s Life will follow at 11 a.m. at Crossroads United Methodist Church, Collierville TN, followed by Burial, at Memorial Park Funeral Home and Cemetery on Poplar Avenue.

In Lieu of flowers, Memorials may be sent to Crossroads UMC at 9315 E. Shelby Drive Collierville, TN 38017.

Family To Receive Friends
April 17, 2019
10:00 am
- 11:00 am
CrossRoad United Methodist Church
9315 East Shelby Drive Collierville, TN 38017
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Funeral service
April 17, 2019
11:00 am
CrossRoad United Methodist Church
9315 East Shelby Drive Collierville, TN 38017
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April 17, 2019
Memorial Park Mausoleum
5668 Poplar Avenue Memphis, TN 38119
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  1. We were saddened and shocked to hear this news. David was a very special friend to David and me and an encouraging Coach to Ben. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

  2. Sorry to hear this news, Keith. I enjoyed my numerous breakfast sit downs with your Dad as he educated me on the grocery industry. I still quote him regularly. Peace to you and your family. I hope to see you soon.

  3. Our love And heartfelt sympathy!

    Written by: Mary Ellen & Peter O’Carroll

    I’m so sorry Kevin and family for your loss. Your dad left an amazing legacy in you and Josie and Luke. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of your family.
    Love , Mary Ellen & Peter O’Carroll

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