Birth date: May 18, 1941 Death date: Aug 29, 2023
John Davis Bates, Jr., aged 82, died peacefully at home in Germantown, Tennessee on August 29, 2023. He is survived by his wife of 63 years, Ana Marie (Rispoli) Bates, son Andrew Bates (Jennifer) of Collierville, TN; daughter Ste Read Obituary
I am so sad to just learn about the passing of my dear friend, confidant, and man to whom I attribute the literal saving of my life, John Bates.
I met him when he became my therapist in the office of Dr's Schaefer & Buchalter. He was able to establish a connection to me that, over many years, became much more than that of a caregiver. He became a true friend, confidant and mentor. When he told me he was going to retire as a therapist (to buy, sell and trade guns), I respected his decision by not calling upon his advice again other than to ask for a recommendation if who he might recommend or refer to me to take his place (as my caregiver). I did, however, try to call to wish him "Happy Birthday" every May 18th.
Last year, I didn't reach him, but left a message. This year, in trying to reach him, I found via the internet, his obituary.
I loved John like a treasured family member, and would do anything for him. I'm so sorry that I'll never have the opportunity to speak with and hear his voice again. There are so many things in my heart that I hope and am sure that knew.
Thank you for everything John. G-d bless your soul my dear friend, and my faith leads me to believe that we'll "see" each other again someday in the great unknown "beyond".
John was a good friend and mentor and I will miss him greatly.
